In the spring of last year, while navigating through one of the most challenging periods of my life, I stumbled upon an opportunity that would later become a significant milestone in my professional journey. Today, I want to share with you my experience training with Dilly Carter, the brilliant mind behind Declutter Dollies, and how it led to an unexpected adventure behind the scenes of BBC’s “Sort Your Life Out.”
Finding Opportunity Amidst Grief
As many of you know, I enrolled in a course with Dilly Carter last year. I’ve been following her work since I started my business in 2021, finding tremendous inspiration in her approach to professional organising.
When I first noticed her course for professional organisers starting in March last year, I was immediately interested. However, my father’s declining health made me hesitate. Looking back, it was the right decision—my father passed away on March 19th, and the following months became a whirlwind of funeral arrangements, estate management, and supporting my mother while she simultaneously dealt with my stepdad’s worsening dementia and hospitalization.
Despite the emotional turbulence, when I saw Dilly’s announcement about a September course opening for enrollment on July 1st, I knew I had to seize the opportunity. I set a calendar reminder and booked my spot at 9 AM that very morning—a small but decisive step toward rebuilding my professional life while still processing my grief.
Learning from the Best
My motivation for joining was straightforward: I wanted to learn from an industry leader, connect with like-minded professionals, and gain hands-on experience with Dilly herself. What I hadn’t anticipated was that our “work experience” component would involve helping behind the scenes on “Sort Your Life Out”!
Behind the Scenes Magic
With the first episode having aired last week, I can finally reveal that I was fortunate enough to witness the incredible process behind this transformative show. The experience has given me a newfound appreciation for what happens behind the camera.
What impressed me most? They genuinely help remarkable families create stunning transformations—and yes, they really do it in just one week! While there are additional helpers working behind the scenes (how else would that warehouse be organised so spectacularly?), the core team’s dedication and expertise are nothing short of inspiring.
I participated in episodes 5 and 6, so I’ll need to keep additional details under wraps for a few more weeks. But I can say with confidence that being part of such a meaningful project—even in a small capacity—has been truly special and deeply fulfilling.
Moving Forward
This experience has not only enhanced my professional skills but also helped me find purpose during a difficult personal time. It’s a powerful reminder that sometimes, when we push ourselves to embrace new opportunities even amidst grief, unexpected doors open.
I look forward to sharing more insights once episodes 5 and 6 air. Until then, I’m carrying forward the lessons I’ve learned about transformation—both of spaces and of oneself—into my daily work and life.
Have you had an experience where professional growth helped you through personal challenges? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments below.
